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This was beautiful, Isabel. Thank you for sharing your definition of love. I often think about attention and how it's paid, as well. The way we can shift our focus, and if we really exercise our abilities, we can put it on what we find most important. Love is where we place our attention. You seem to have yours set well.

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Simply beautiful! My day has been enriched. Thank you!

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this made my heart warm. thank you for all you share and all that you are. also—the thought of a good relationship being 'one long conversation you never want to end' will stick with me.

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Isabel, I don’t know you and you don’t know me. But what you describe is the relationship that I have to my own writing. Here is the last thing I published, https://edbrenegar.substack.com/p/synthesis-in-time-and-space. It isn’t stream of consciousness, but more like the convergence of the whole of my life in a couple of thousand words. It isn’t complete or even finished. It a way station along the journey of my life. It flows out, unfolding piece by piece, as it emerges from the microscopic moments of interaction with people, so that it transcends my life. All those metaphors mixed together in one sentence points to how large and expansive that I feel it is. Thank you for writing and for understanding.

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It's like you expressed so much of what I have been trying to say but couldn't find the words. Thank you for that gift. I can be attracted to a womans look, values, goals. But, If she doesn't tell me her story. Everything goes cold fast. Thought it was trust and that is some of it. What you expressed is closer to the truth. Without specific feedback, challenges criticism and agreement I don't think trust could be established. Definitely worth re-reading and sharing. Well done Isabel.

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Isabel, don't let your gratitude float aimlessly in no direction. Point it upward. You are not lucky, you are a uniquely created being. That inner voice affirming you is your Creator telling you that the gifts you are exercising are the ones that are most pleasing to Him. The love you feel is your reaction to your deepest passions meeting some of the world's greatest needs. God made conscious existence that way. He made YOU that way.

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Absolutely beautiful. I bathe in the perfection of this momentary exchange of love.

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It's like you expressed so much of what I have been trying to say but couldn't find the words. Thank you for that gift. I can be attracted to a womans look, values, goals. But, If she doesn't tell me her story. Everything goes cold fast. Thought it was trust and that is some of it. What you expressed is closer to the truth. Without specific feedback, challenges criticism and agreement I don't think trust could be established. Definitely worth re-reading and sharing. Well done Isabel.

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